But does your wife have a bf?

I do. Most other people that come here are regulars also.

Not much else out there for community.

My only question is why? Why go through all that stuff to “become” someone when you can just “be” who you already are?

I mean, almost nobody is happy with the body they’ve grown, but most of us just accept it and go on with life. What is the reason for drastic changes like taking hormones and getting surgery and needing other people’s validation?

I hope this isn’t seen as transphobic, I’m happy to accept anyone, I just really don’t understand the drasticness of it.