A great deal of what we call “courtesy” involves not being completely honest at all times. Just because something is true doesn’t necessarily mean that it must be pointed out.
Olyphant would have been 40-41 when they were casting Star Trek (2009) and Chris Pine was 28-29. That’s a pretty meaningful age difference that comes off in both appearance and performance. It wasn’t just some minor detail— the actor who got cast had to play Kirk from the age of ~18-25, so it made a lot more sense to cast an actor much closer to that age. I don’t see the problem here or how explaining that is “mean”.
edit: in fact, Olyphant didn’t think it was mean at all:
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“Auditioning sucks,” Olyphant concluded, “and the fact that I remember the audition process fondly says a lot about J.J. Abrams and what a wonderful man that guy is.”
in the professional world, lying to people to spare their feelings can be a real disservice. actors hear this sort of thing all the time (too young, too old, too tall, too short). casting directors often look for something very specific, and if you’re not a fit, they usually tell you why. In the article, Olyphant even says he remembered the process “fondly”. doesn’t sound like he has a problem with it.
A great deal of what we call “courtesy” involves not being completely honest at all times. Just because something is true doesn’t necessarily mean that it must be pointed out.
edit: what does this have to do with courtesy?
Olyphant would have been 40-41 when they were casting Star Trek (2009) and Chris Pine was 28-29. That’s a pretty meaningful age difference that comes off in both appearance and performance. It wasn’t just some minor detail— the actor who got cast had to play Kirk from the age of ~18-25, so it made a lot more sense to cast an actor much closer to that age. I don’t see the problem here or how explaining that is “mean”.
edit: in fact, Olyphant didn’t think it was mean at all:
FTA:
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in the professional world, lying to people to spare their feelings can be a real disservice. actors hear this sort of thing all the time (too young, too old, too tall, too short). casting directors often look for something very specific, and if you’re not a fit, they usually tell you why. In the article, Olyphant even says he remembered the process “fondly”. doesn’t sound like he has a problem with it.