Two weeks ago, I had a date with a girl I met through a dating app. She was really nice, we had a great conversation and she told in person at the bar she would love to see me again.

Well fast forward a week, I keep texting her to set something up, but she’s not responding. I think she’s ghosted me. I mean, that’s fine, but if you don’t want to date me anymore, then just let me know. I will respect your decision.

Dating is so frustrating sometimes… It’s really fucking hard and I sometimes feel lonely because of my lack of success. I have a good job and I’m a nice guy… but eh… I digress.

  • Admiral Muffin@lemmy.one
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    1 year ago

    Don’t be too hard on yourself as there are a range of factors which come into play.

    The very advantage of a dating app also happens to be its biggest problem which happens to be the option of having many to choose from. You’re not only competing for her attention but also against thousands of other guys in the same pool as you (based on your location/age etc).

    All you can do is control your outlook here. There could be plenty more rejections down the road but do not let these instances downgrade your self-worth. Hope you find someone who likes you for who you are.