• P1nkman@lemmy.world
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      I’m currently on the :(

      I wish everyone a great day, even though I’m in a dark place at the moment. Please hug someone for me.

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        I’ve had some dark times. Especially when I lost my religion.

        Existential crisis is depression’s brother. They often travel together.

        Figured out that my purpose is taking care of my people.

        My people are my immediate family, friends, people in our small alternative subcommunity, pets. It’s sort of like a tribe and is small enough I can wrap my head around it instead of the world and society at large. It appeals to the pagan inside my inner atheist.

        Find someone or something external to yourself to care about that you can meaningfully help and take care of. I’ll give my wife a hug for you.

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    The cosmos is within us. We are made of star-stuff. We are a way for the universe to know itself. — Carl Sagan

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      It’s a shame that those people who most need to hear this message, won’t get it.

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      I find the idea of not expecting too much of oneself can be extremely liberating. Just let go of the stress, relax and enjoy life.

      What do you do about people who obligate you otherwise though?

      I seem to find myself under managers like this all the time for example—unending, “I want you to rise up to the occasion”-types. Largely because they just yes-man whatever their bosses ask for without further consideration.

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    Yup. We are just some timespace consisting of some miles and some decades. Ive had my go and if there is more good but if there is not it was still good.

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    Friend, I hope you can continue enjoying life and it isn’t past tense only. If you’re unsure, please reach out and find the help you need 💙

    As for your sentiment, I feel the same, cosmic dust but okay with that thought; enjoy life as it is, unworried about what is or is not after.

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    The JAMES song Walk Like You always makes it into my heart when I think about this…

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bCK4Rul948I

    You know more than you think you know

    This universe is in your eyes

    Inside the galaxies collide

    They have a few songs where they do a great job of painting how small we are and yet we are made of the greatest things the universe has every made… We are.

    But I can talk…

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    I remember when I realized that, I stopped taking everything literally.

    I don’t think is negative, I think knowing your place on the universe adds perspective to everyday “problems”

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    why the need to grandiosity?

    just dust

    nothing cosmic about it. And not dust at all, just a human typing on a screen. There’s a purity to dust that we shouldn’t reclaim. Is the moon full tonight?

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      Everything heavier than lithium was created either in the heart of a star over it’s lifetime, or during its death in a supernova. We really are cosmic dust, or as Carl Segan called it, “Star Stuff”.