Wrestling is underrated.

Oral sex and masturbation are sex. To consider them as foreplay is to make penetration (and incidentally, male orgasm) the apha and omega of intercourse.

And to answer the question: mutual expression of desire and consent, and skin-to-skin contact. Exploring each other’s bodies with hands and lips.

I love rubbing my cock on hard nipples.

Kissing, dirty talk, touching and a bit of mutual masturbation

A relaxed mutual masturbation session. Just while cuddling playing with each other for as long as possible without the intention to reach orgasm. Under the sheets or something easy.

And a shower.

I get basically nowhere without kissing. Talking and touching don’t really do it for me without the kissing. Even just a little polite peck gets the blood flowing.

Random acts of blowjob are the rare late night exception that prove the rule.