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Cake day: January 2nd, 2024

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  • I have been depressed in the past and it took me 10 years of spiraling downward till i hit rock bottom somehow I bounced back up and started practicing better personal care(self love) by excercising more and going out and engaging in conversation with strangers (without putting any expectations of somthing more on them or myself). Eventually self care became easier and I stopped looking for the “why i am” of it all and focused i on the “how i can”. Im not perfect and depression is still there in the background but I don’t have to give those feelings all my time.

    I hope it doesn’t take you 10 years. It could take longer. Life isn’t easy. It’s even harder when you don’t love yourself, and loving yourself is hard to learn from parents who don’t love themselves. Break the cycle your progenitors are trapped in. Save yourself.













  • Maybe you need to look for some higher quality men. They exist out there, quietly letting go of the insane bullshit that the world heaps on them, taking their time to get what they need and lending help for others in need. Yes the world is full of fucking selfish disgusting morons who cant and wont see the world beyond the end of their dick but it’s not all bad out there. I know lots of good guys who care about the woman they have committed to loving and I hope that you can someday find yourself in a place where you can open your heart to accepting love. Reading what you wrote makes me think that you don’t practice self love. Care for yourself love yourself treat yourself with the respect you deserve. Don’t let the bastards drag you down.