Used Arch for over 5 years. I don’t know if having a child changed me but I realised I’d lost a lot of time I had that I spent just fiddling with configs to get stufftpo my liking so went from Arch xmonad to PopOs and Gnome.

It has been stable and doesn’t have the snap bullshit that comes with Ubuntu.

I agree, I do not care about drama at all. People aren’t perfect and that’s fine with me.

GrapheneOS is the best option for me and my device.