Not trying to convince you or anything, but the pairing process can be done via web, without the installing the app.
Staying away from meta products is, in any case, a good idea.
i believe someone released an unofficial UI on github, but i couldn’t tell you the name of the repo anymore
Have a look at dokku, which is a self hosted heroku alternative https://dokku.com/
The L.A. force
I needed to find the source to hear the tone of that statement for myself - it’s from an interview from 2022 (link is timestamped):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cdZZpaB2kDM&t=2284