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  • room_raccoon@kbin.social
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    At first I thought this question was a no-brainer, that I’d rather have legs. But after thinking about it a little, the question becomes much more interesting to me.

    If the case is that you can still learn to be literate, the obvious choice is to have legs. But if it means you have no possibility to ever read or write, I’m now thinking I’d rather have no legs.

    I learn best from reading and writing things down, and I think I communicate better in text, too. I love learning new skills and that would be hard for me without using text. It’s very sexy to have legs and I’d miss mine a lot, but I chose to be literate… I think.

    Edit: I hope this is okay to do, but I made a magazine on kbin for these kinds of questions. I think would you rather questions are so fascinating and fun to discuss. Maybe someone would like to come post one or discuss? https://kbin.social/m/would_you_rather

  • AlternateRoute@lemmy.ca
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    Assuming you were completely illiterate it would VASTLY limit your interaction with the current world and ability to work than having no legs.

    I am not even sure it is a contest here. Having no legs would absolutely limit my physical mobility but there are accommodations and workarounds for that. I can 100% do my current desk job with no legs, play online games etc.

    Being completely illiterate would heavily isolate you and your ability to grow and learn. You would have to be verbally / visually be taught everything yet somehow not ever learn how to read or write?

    • CmdrShepard@lemmy.one
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      1 year ago

      I think the impact would be lessened with things like Alexa and Siri capable of translating speech to text.

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        You clearly haven’t tried to use them for any significant task, the error rate gets bad. Hell I just use Siri for my shopping list and have to figure out some of the random garbage it inserts.

        At the very least READING works well but speech to text is very hit and miss. You also can’t use it everywhere.

        As far as communication goes it would be similar to being blind but not knowing braille or Tactile signing and being 100% dependant on technical aids.

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          The ChatGPT app uses the speech-to-text model Whisper, and it’s always spot on in English. Whisper is open source. I don’t understand why it’s not widespread, but hopefully it will be or similarly capable software will be soon.

        • CmdrShepard@lemmy.one
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          You’re correct I don’t use them but I do know several people who might be straddling the illiteracy line and use them almost exclusively. It does result in errors but it also opens many doors that wouldn’t be available without it. The reverse is also beneficial as it allows these people to have text read aloud to them.

  • Dharma Curious@startrek.website
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    Okay, here’s my fucking soap box. Didn’t mean to write all of this, but here it is.

    Some of y’all have no idea what it’s like to go through life in a wheelchair… Or to deal with the American medical system as someone with disabilities. You’re disabled, so you can’t work. Now you have to spend years proving you can’t work, while not working, and not getting disability. So, y’know, enjoy living in your car without a wheelchair, because you can’t afford one… If you’re lucky enough to have a car.

    My mom has been disabled since birth. She’s 62 now. She got her first power chair 7 years ago.

    I’m not saying being illiterate would be any better, that would also be a disability in our society (because disability is, despite what many people think, as much a social construct as an actual reality, and illiteracy shows this better than a lot of things). But this kind of question is, frankly, pretty offensive to any one who’s had to go through a world that is built in a way that is hostile to their body. Being wheelchair bound means less options for apartments (because, for the majority of disabled people, you’re a renter, you can’t afford to own a home). You’re stuck with the choice of not being able to rent an apartment because there’s no elevator (even a lot of ground floors have too many steps for a ramp), or renting a second story or above apartment with an elevator, and just accepting that you will likely die in a fire with no way to escape.

    There’s so much to this y’all aren’t considering. Needing another human when you need to transfer to a shower, or the toilet. Having to call and ask employees at stores to come outside to you instead of going in if you’re unable to transfer to a chair yourself, or get to your wheelchair. Being unable to drive because you can’t afford the conversion kit. Being unable to leave your home without help.

    This world is designed for one particular body type. You can’t just slot into it with a different type and go along like you would have before. You should be able to, but you can’t.

    Which is all say, just, consider what it’s like for people with disabilities, and do what you can to make it better. Agitate, vote, shame and name, and if you’re ever in a position to change things, do it. There are so many small changes we could make that would make the world better for those with disabilities. Accessible places are usable by everyone, “normal” places are only useable by one body type. There is no reason for it to be this way. Ramps, roll in showers, heightened toilets, grab bars, hand rails at three different heights, elevators with emergency generators and fire walls on exterior walls with a fire exit on the back. These are things that could be standard and would make the world accessible to all.

    • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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      I know you called it a soap box, but I appreciate the perspective. Someone else in this thread suggested the question was offensive, but when I asked why in earnest, they just blew up with accusation after accusation. Your explanation gets the point across pretty well.

      I do believe that OP’s question was asked in a context that wasn’t intended to be offensive, but instead asking the audience what challenge they feel they’d be better equipped to face. But I do get (and agree with) what you’re saying, that a larger discussion about the implications of these topics deserves to be had.

      • Dharma Curious@startrek.website
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        I don’t think any offense or malice was intended with the question, it’s honestly more the people saying how much easier it would be to do one or the other, or how their life wouldn’t change because they have a desk job… That’s a matter of people needing education on a topic, y’know?

    • neamhsplach@beehaw.orgOP
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      Thanks for your detailed answer, I really liked it. Apologies if this question was offensive to you, I had this discussion recently and it made me think a lot about how much time I spend using my literacy skills vs getting around. Then it got me thinking about how accessible lots of buildings where I live are. A friend of mine had a family member come to visit in a wheelchair recently and pointed out that lots of places that tourists usually visit are exempt from accessibility requirements because they’re situated in older buildings. One of my biggest shames in one of my previous jobs was being told I had to turn down a group of students coming to take a course in the school I was working in because we couldn’t accommodate one of their classmates in a wheelchair. Like, my gut tells me that’s straight up illegal 🫤 but maybe where I live it’s not. I left that job not long after so I don’t know if there were any repercussions.

      There’s a big push to revitalise the city I live in at the moment regarding opening up public spaces and making them more attractive to citizens and this is something that I haven’t seen discussed openly in relation to that yet so I will keep an eye out for it!

  • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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    I’d rather have no legs.

    Yes, I could learn how to read/write. But so many of my passions require high aptitude in those regards, so it’d take way too long to get up to speed. I’d also not be able to perform my job.

    On the other hand, prosthetics and bionics are taking leaps and bounds. There likely would be little I’d have to give up physically, if I had access to that tech.

  • NumbersCanBeFun@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    Easy. No legs. I spent the better part of my recovery in a wheelchair/unable to walk. I wouldn’t be happy with it but I know I can live with it. My work requires me to problem solve electrical issues, so I need my brain to do that.

  • PlexSheep@feddit.de
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    1 year ago

    Learning to read would be easier than getting new legs, so I guess that be the better choice

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    Would you rather post a ridiculously offensive question or just keep your thoughts to yourself?

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        The hell do you think you’re going to learn by asking other ignorant people?

        If you want to understand what it is like to have a given disability, search out materials written by and for people who have experienced those disabilities. If you get a chance to ask a disabled person about how that disability affects them, without being a boring, insensitive, dehumanising dickhead, do so.

        Don’t ask a bunch of people without those disabilities to debate which would be most awful. And do not pretend it’s about educating yourself when you’re addressing your question to people who are mostly as clueless as you are. You’re not going to learn anything useful at all and you can’t possibly have imagined you would. You’re just adding to the mountains of awful dehumanising bullshit that is already out there.

        • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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          I feel like you’ve just projected a lot of your own context onto OP’s question. I think I understand what you’re getting at, but there’s a of anger in there that feels misplaced.

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            You understand what I’m getting at but you don’t think it’s worth getting angry about?

            Yeah, sure.

            • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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              Let me rephrase:

              When I try to read between the lines of your unnecessarily aggressive rant, I believe what you’re getting at is that the question could be perceived as being insensitive to those that cannot read or are missing limbs.

              I however think that you’re communicating in a manner that displays very little control over your emotions, and a penchant for theatrics, and you are loading a lot of your own context onto a question that lacks it.

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                  You may be illiterate, or have no legs, or neither, and be offended by the question. You feel your feelings and nobody can tell you they are valid or not, regardless on their opinions of those feelings.

                  It’s not fair for you to decide for everyone that this is objectively offensive. It’s patronizing. People who are illiterate or have no legs have their own thoughts and feelings that are just as valid as yours, and you don’t get to speak for them or anyone except yourself. They may or may not be offended, and that is not a choice you get to make for them.

                  It’s great that you are concerned for those people and have empathy - I believe, or at least hope that we all do - but nobody can speak for them but themselves. I think that is part of the reason for the pushback you have received in this thread.

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                  That’s a ridiculously offensive question. What if Wesker is hearing-impaired?

        • KoboldCoterie@pawb.social
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          I think you’re maybe reading too much into it… pretty sure it was just intended to be a hypothetical for discussion, not an attempt to learn about disabilities. It’s like, “Would you rather have unlimited money but be perpetually depressed, or always be happy but be perpetually broke?”

          If someone who actually has no legs came in and offered their opinion, that’d be a bonus, but it doesn’t strike me as the intended purpose of the post.

          If there’s anyone here who actually has no legs who is offended by this, I’d be interested to hear from them, but… if you have legs (because you’re clearly literate), are you sure you’re not just taking offense by proxy where none should exist or was intended?

          • JoBo@feddit.uk
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            pretty sure it was just intended to be a hypothetical for discussion

            Exactly. How the hell you constructed the rest of your thoughts around that basic fact is beyond me.

            • KoboldCoterie@pawb.social
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              I mean, you seem to have constructed your objection around a completely different premise, so… if this is a basic fact, than what is your objection, really?

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                I don’t know what the fuck is going on in your head but my objection is to dehumanising discussions of disabled people. How is that so very hard to understand?

  • thatsTheCatch@lemmy.nz
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    Depends what country I’m in.

    A developing country with poor education and lots of agricultural/manual labour jobs? Illiterate.

    A developed nation with good education and knowledge work jobs that can be done even without legs? No legs.

    A developed nation is also likely to be more wheelchair accessible, which is how I’m assuming I would get around.

    • neamhsplach@beehaw.orgOP
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      For the purposes of the argument, you are you. You are in your current situation. You wake up tomorrow morning with either a lack of legs or a lack of reading ability. Which is preferable?