Do you care if your partner has had a lot of partners before you; does it turn you on that she has had a lot of dick inside her or do you absolutely get sick at the notion of the idea?
Do you care if your partner has had a lot of partners before you; does it turn you on that she has had a lot of dick inside her or do you absolutely get sick at the notion of the idea?
But why restrain? This is what I don’t get. Eating too much has obvious drawbacks. Sex does not.
You only get one life, might as well have as much fun as you can.
I think this stems from the whole ‘sinful’ thing that religions try to push on us. It’s too bad because there’s no need for it. In the middle ages the church was the government and they didn’t want people screwing around when there was no contraception (too much hassle with orphans to take care of). That’s probably why they made a big deal out of it. But anyway I’m not religious so it doesn’t apply to me.
Also there’s the STD thing but everyone I know in the now promiscuous community is checked regularly (I do every 3 months), using condoms and sometimes even PrEP. Also the more obscure vaccines like HPV (can cause nasty cancers these days!)
Anyway I never really made a ‘count’. Because it just doesn’t matter. Probably not much more than 50.
I’m more of the “sex positive” kind. We believe that sex (between consenting adults obviously) is a normal and beneficial human activity and nothing to feel ashamed about 🫶