Hi, I’m Aileen, Sub from Scotland. I’m 23 and new to Lemmy. Looking to meet new people and answer questions so if anyone wants to do a wee Q&A then feel free to ask me anything you want x

  • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    5·
    3 months ago

    Obligatory, can you say the following phrase aloud?

    “Purple burglar alarm.”

    Ok, silliness aside, uh I dunno lets see…

    How did you discover/determine that you are a sub?

    What does ‘sub’ mean to you, or maybe more precisely, what kinds of ‘sub’ act/behaviors do you prefer to engage in, in the bedroom?

    Is your idea of ‘submissive’ more in the sense of … a person who is basically freely acted upon (within limits), or more like an active servant who follows commands to do any action (again, within limits)?

    Does your submissive mindset exist generally in your day to day personality, or only/mainly in the bedroom? Maybe it is greatly exaggerated in the bedroom? Maybe its a total flip from your general personality?

    Do you have any particularly favorite kinks?

    Any you’ve thought about and maybe would try, or are very eager to try?

    Any that are definitely out of the question?

    Oh right, hah, straight/lesbian/bi/pan/other?

  • xePBMg9@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    4·
    3 months ago

    Cat or dog? What’s haggis taste like? What is the first thing you think of if I ask ‘what color is your [placeholder]?’

  • shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    31·
    3 months ago
    1. How sensitive is your clit? Can it take direct and intense stimulation, does it take only light stimulation directly, or can you only stimulate it through the hood?
    2. Does your clitoris stick out outside the hood normally or does it stay inside?
    3. How big would you say your clitoris is?
    4. In what ways do you like your clitoris to be stimulated?
    5. When you are aroused, what happens to your clit?
    6. When you are having an orgasm, what happens to your clit? Does it throb? Does it stay the same?
    7. After your are done having an orgasm, what happens to your clit? Does it become sensitive, or does it stay the same?
    8. Are there any extra sensitive or less sensitive spots on your clitoris? Where?
    9. Have you ever injured or bruised your clit? How did that go?

    As for orgasms:

    1. What does your standard orgasm feel like? How do you prefer to get there?
    2. Can you describe how the clitoral and the g-spot orgasm feel? (muscle tension, tingling sensations, etc.)
    3. Is it hard for you to reach multiple orgasms?
    4. Do multiple orgasms feel different than just one? How do they feel different?
    5. Is it possible to have too many and if so, what does that feel like?
    6. Is there a point where you have to “recharge” like men before you can have the next orgasm?
    7. Is it possible for you to stop your self from having an orgasm when you are having one?
    8. How have your orgasms changed with age