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  • infyrin@lemmy.worldOP
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    2 years ago

    “They make communicating with your friends and family easier!”

    Um, E-mail has been doing that since the dawn of the Internet. There is absolutely nothing at all that has made communicating any easier since even instant messaging. All that social media has turned into, is nothing but megaphones for the idiot masses.

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      They literally don’t. X pushing things to the top of ur feed, Facebook polluting your timeline with random video shares, it all makes it harder to see the content you actually care about

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        2 years ago

        Facebook before the algorithm was awesome. It was just the most recent stuff your friends did in that literal order. There was nothing wrong with it lol. Or at least I didn’t think so.

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        2 years ago

        When I visit Facebook, it’s about 8:1 “recommended for you” vs people I actually know.

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          2 years ago

          I see exactly one post on Instagram from anyone I follow before it’s all ads and random algorithm shit I’m not interested in

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            I’ve just started going through and telling it not show me any of the recommended stuff.

            It’s kind of fun watching the algorithm cycle through waves of guessing. “Ok it’s going to be all wrestling for the next two days. Hmm, that didn’t work, let’s try MMA for a couple days. No, alright, how about a bunch of memes about being a mechanic…”

            On the other hand the clicking “don’t show me this” doesn’t seem to actually do anything. I’ve told it not to show me Pixie and Brutus at least three times.

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      2 years ago

      Um, E-mail has been doing that since the dawn of the Internet.

      I always see people saying “but I have some friends across the world and Facebook is the only way we can keep in contact because they don’t have a phone 😭😭😭”

      Like… my guy. You both have email addresses and used them to create FB accounts. Cut out the middle man.

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        2 years ago

        Facebook as taught them that they can be lazy and reduce their effort to remain in contact with a like or emoji reaction.

        Ironically, I upvoted your comment.

      • infyrin@lemmy.worldOP
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        2 years ago

        It was.

        What was better than e-mail? Instant messaging and AIM gave us that.

        What was better than just instant messaging on your PC? Doing it on the go, on your phone. Great!

        What was better than just instant messaging on the go and on PC? Being able to share content like video and pictures. Being able to make group chats and all.

        Did it all without the need of social media.

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      I’m not trying to defend what it has become but social media can be good to keep updated or in contact with people. You’re not gonna email everyone pictures of your vacation or whatever. Or to keep up with people you don’t see nearly as often as you’d like because of, well, life. People do take it way to far and either post way too much info or take everything too serious.

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      2 years ago

      But where else can I post a picture of my dinner and have millions of random strangers see it, thereby validating my personal fragile ego, before I even take the first bite?

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      My preferred method of communication is a good ol’ phone call, or an SMS to say things like “be there in 5.” I don’t really get the hype with a slew of different text based messaging platforms.

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        I’m pretty close but I prefer signal just because SMS doesn’t do group messaging very well.

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          I was all about Signal until they dropped SMS support (totally understand why). None of the people in my life use signal except for the select few that enjoy their ahem extracurricular activities, so it’s kinda moot. And I just don’t have the energy to crusade for people to give a rats ass about their privacy. If I need to have a combo that requires a degree of discretion, I just do it in person.

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        i use the phone (ya know… for its original and intended purpose) for nearly all ‘not face to face’ communication. i don’t even have data on my mobile and sms is disabled at the carrier.