Wife-sharing seems to have cuckolding almost as a co-requisite. I seek to share and swap my partner as a Dominant kink, having her do kinky stuff for my entertainment and because it merely crossed my mind. I’m not into humiliation, nor is my partner. Yet it seems difficult to find share/swap dynamics without the cuckold aspect.
For those with swap and share kinks, how many find the humiliation aspect appealing or unappealing? And our particular flavor can’t be all that rare, right? Non-cuckold sharing folk, let’s see a show of hands!
I like sharing my partners and myself, not merely as kink but as part of our polyamorous life. Cuckolding for me has an aspect of negativity, like degredation, that is absent from how we do it. When I see my partners having sex with others, Im just happy, even if I dont join in.
We are also not really into humiliation (bit of namecalling is fine), but the really “hard stuff” we leave for others to enjoy. I know that when I love a person, love sharing them so others can enjoy their compaby as well and maybe see why I hold this person dear so much.
Its also probably really hard to cuck someone who cheerleads you enthusiastically during the act, instead of having to “endure” the whole thing.