wizard@lemmynsfw.com to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.comEnglish · 1 month agoInitiating sex?NSFWmessage-squaremessage-square22linkfedilinkarrow-up119arrow-down10file-text
arrow-up119arrow-down1message-squareInitiating sex?NSFWwizard@lemmynsfw.com to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.comEnglish · 1 month agomessage-square22linkfedilinkfile-text
In your opinion, if your partner slips their hand under your sleepwear and fondles your naked body, are they initiating sex?
minus-squareChippys_mittens@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up15·1 month agoGood rule of thumb, fondling below the belt= yes, fondling above the belt=probably just enjoying the body.
minus-squaresp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4arrow-down1·1 month agoSee, personally, as a guy, if somebody just obviously and intentionally grabbed me by the hen and her two children, over the pants, in most contexts… … i’d interpret that as an extremely sexual act, as the uh, first act to a grander play. Either that or basically sexual assault? Done purely to assert a kind of dominance or essentially ownership?
Good rule of thumb, fondling below the belt= yes, fondling above the belt=probably just enjoying the body.
See, personally, as a guy, if somebody just obviously and intentionally grabbed me by the hen and her two children, over the pants, in most contexts…
… i’d interpret that as an extremely sexual act, as the uh, first act to a grander play.
Either that or basically sexual assault? Done purely to assert a kind of dominance or essentially ownership?