Authoritative, demanding, muscular, degrading, older, stronger, rougher, nastier, bigger, brutish, insistent. There are so many versions of domination that appeal to our animal instincts.
Which version though of this classic fantasy is it that really turns you feral and makes you crave to submit? I’m talking about both the characteristics of your fantasy Dom and the way they use them…
Fucking nothing.
I hate being told what to do and that extends to the bedroom.
I also don’t care for controlling other people. It’s a lot of fucking effort.
Power dynamics are not sexy imo.