If done intentionally, what were you hoping to achieve? What effects did you notice, both desirable and undesirable? Why did you end the orgasm denial streak? What did you learn from the experience? Did you do it solo or with a partner? Demographic details (eg, age, sex, gender, sexual orientation, relevant kinks), if you care to share, are also helpful to understand your experience.
Btw, I created an !orgasm_denial_psychology@lemmynsfw.com community.
For me (36M sissy/beta sub), the longest I’ve gone is 52 days. I was helped motivationally through the first 2-3 weeks due to healing from circumcision.
I do orgasm denial to try and elicit my more submissive and feminine sides. The main negative effect is that it can make me irritable or cranky; also getting stuff done as opposed to looking at erotic content online for lengthy periods of time due to unrelenting horniness can be really tough.
I ended that 52-day streak because I was questioning why I was doing it, and gave in. It was an interesting orgasm. Ejaculation-wise, it was a solid 7/10 come - I was a little disappointed tbh but I didn’t fap for long. However, psychologically, it blew my mind; I was giggly and tingly in a 9/10 kind of way, which I loved. A wild guess is that I might need to go without for a month to experience that. idk. (My baseline is ~4 orgasms a week.)
I’m on another streak now, and I’m trying to be more focused in why I’m doing this to set a new personal best, heck, ideally, go orgasmfree all of 2026 🤞😘