• ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com
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    8 days ago

    I like it. It’s fun, sometimes you make a real connection and it feels really good. Sometimes not and it’s meh. But still it beats sitting at home alone.

    I do really like to take my time though. Which can be an issue because surprisingly many people really want quickies.

    For me it’s not right if I don’t spend at least an hour on foreplay, teasing etc. Chatting. Give an erotic massage, go down etc. I even like that better than intercourse. The whole bang bang bye in 10 minutes doesn’t really do it for me. But even in the very promiscuous culture it doesn’t have to be like that. Especially in the hetero scene.

    When you find someone nice the mood can easily go that way and then it’s amazing. Also, it’s nice to share intimacy with different people, different energies. Sometimes it doesn’t happen but still it’s worth the try.