My wife hasn’t talked to me since Monday. She’s mad at me and last night she said we’re not friends anymore. I’m out of ideas. I’m going to offer her cash to be friends again. Wish me luck guys.

    • Nepenthe@kbin.social
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      1 year ago

      hasn’t talked to me since Monday.

      I would normally interpret “we’re not friends” to be joking, but not if it lasts more than a couple minutes. If real, it is the end of the 4th day for OP, going on into the 5th.

      Whatever happened, it wasn’t something good. Offering someone money to like you probably won’t improve one’s social standing. Not to say almost a week of the silent treatment bodes well for problem solving, either.

      Without knowing the full story, @cRazi_man, maybe the two of you should at least think over seeing someone? A lot of couples see it as a last resort, so they end up waiting til there’s basically nothing to save before trying to do something about it. This is…a concern.

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      1 year ago

      I think it depends on the prior history.

      This is a GOOD idea if he frequently told her “I’d give you my last dollar.”

      This is a BAD idea if his catch-phrase is “they’re cheaper than a 10 dollar ho.”