As simple as it sounds. Sometimes our kinks are mysterious, but sometimes you can look back and see a clear origin for them, whether that be a traumatic response or a childhood hobby or something.
For me? While figuring out my bisexuality, i also played a lot of fighting games.
Seeing two female characters throw each other in Soul Calibur or Dead or Alive was one of the earliest examples of female physical contact that i got that my parents didn’t immediately try to ban so like… it stuck with me and now as an adult i get turned on by certain kinds of fights or martial arts gear.
The ultimate origin is that i bought a cheap hose. Pulled it out of the shed and hooked it to the tap without untangling it. Tried to water the garden with the sprayer attachment and the water would just stop after a second. Would give the hose a hearty snap to try and free it up but the wave would never travel back as far as the kink. Had to walk back and straighten it out then run back to the sprayer because fixing the kink caused it to start spraying everywhere.
Took me a while to get where you’re going with that one… 😅
I thought they had a thing for getting blasted in the face for a bit there.