I call mine Tim

Maybe you could be her concubine?

This is a solid take

The age gap might make a relationship difficult, but it’s not wrong. Just make sure you have clear open communication and understand each other’s expectations. You’re both adults.

Try Julia, it has both

They put Med so why not Low?

That’s good to know. Perhaps I will start using wireguard for direct connections

Have you tried tailscale? It uses wireguard under the hood, but is much easier to connect multiple devices.