dullbananas (Joseph Silva)

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JP2 class of 2024

ASU 2028 (Polytechnic)

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  • dullbananas (Joseph Silva)@lemmy.caOPtoMildly Infuriating@lemmy.world"incel"
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    3 months ago

    Also I suspect that some people assume that I feel hurt from being single. Some possible factors:

    • For people who are less able to put a lot of energy into a non-urgent task, I think perceived urgency would be more likely to be the first explanation that comes to mind when reading about my experiences, because avoiding projection is complicated for all of us.
    • It’s hard for me to precisely describe mindsets that I have had, so I have used vague descriptions, and that might leave room for various interpretations. A severe example is when I used the phrase “almost like a goal”.