• PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca
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    6 days ago

    You would be bicurious. Most men exist on the Kinsey scale at some level. Most humans exist there too.

    Societally though, it’s only okay for women to be bisexual and not acceptable for men to be bisexual, which is why most men suppress their curiosity until much later in life.

    • Case@lemmynsfw.com
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      6 days ago

      I do believe the Kinsey scale is a real thing (lived in a red state, so arguments)

      I don’t want to do dudes, on a grand scale.

      But Ryan Reynolds is handsome, funny, and rich. I’m not sure if I could say no to that, especially if he was a bottom. Not sure I could bottom.

      That being said, I was dating a bi girl, who had a friend who recently broke up with her boyfriend. She was working on a threesome, and promised if I kissed her gay friend if dared (truth or dare game) she would make it happen.

      So, the dare came, I kissed the dude. It was, to put it bluntly, not my thing. That being said, I hated that dude. I knew him before he came out, and after. He was no longer himself, he was a gay stereotype. He didn’t have a lisp before he came out, so to speak.

      Then, as the night was finishing up and we were giving her friend a “ride” her ex showed up. Soured the whole deal.

      Oh well. At least I know that I’m firmly on the straight end of the Kinsey scale. Though, Ryan Reynolds… lol

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        6 days ago

        having done women anally I would just once like to do a guy that way. Of course a guy that was into being a bottom. But I have no idea how they view basically straight guys just looking for a one off.

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      Not just acceptable, but seen as normal. I have had guys want to insist I was bi because I run hot, and kind of freaky - like they knew and I just had not realized. Um, no.