Authoritative, demanding, muscular, degrading, older, stronger, rougher, nastier, bigger, brutish, insistent. There are so many versions of domination that appeal to our animal instincts.
Which version though of this classic fantasy is it that really turns you feral and makes you crave to submit? I’m talking about both the characteristics of your fantasy Dom and the way they use them…
To start, there has to be mutual attraction, and the person has to demonstrate with their actions that they truly enjoy being in control to bring out submissive tendencies in me. That can mean not being afraid to tell me what they want out of fear that it will turn me off, escalating when there is sexual tension, and guiding me into what they want me to do without having to ask. I can’t enjoy it if it’s being done to satisfy my fantasy.
There are certain tones of voice or mannerisms in speaking which excite me very much but are hard to describe. One is slightly mocking, another is almost clinical but with the slightest hint of amusement or arousal. 🫠