such as like this:
The concept of gender identity is said to be real as an experience, (like how theists claim to see god [a claim basically]), but scientifically under-defined, weakly grounded biologically, and sometimes treated as more fixed or explanatory than current evidence justifies.
finishes joint “If you wrote this on my instance, I would have banned you.”
I’m not saying that I agree with right wing transphobia, and I condemn transphobia, but sometimes, do you ever think that actually, maybe transphobia is a good thing?
That’s how your post reads
Being transgender is not an ideology, dude.
i didn’t even use that word
No, but you are attempting to critique it as if it was.
One way this question could be interpreted and restated is: Trans people don’t have blanket immunity against critique, right?
If that is the legitimate heart of your question then: No. They do not. No one does.
Let’s say some puppy kicker happens to be trans. I publically and vocally oppose their puppy kicking. They respond by labeling me transphobic. That’s nothing more than a weak response from a bad person using their minority status as a cover for their shitty behavior/beliefs.
That said, and I cannot stress this enough; that is not how your question reads and the above is an overly charitable interpretation.
If that is not the legitimate heart of your question then all I can do is refer you to the bible: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en
What “beliefs” do I have by virtue of being trans, and in what way do they need to be critiqued? This “question” is vague in a very “what can I get away with saying?” kind of way.
The entire discussion is exasperating. It’s a free world, people should do what they want.
never saw it online it’s heavily censored, that’s what makes it more appealing to others
There is another way to take this.
People should do what they want, even when they want to create fake morals that they themselves don’t believe in and then use them to gang up and harass others minding their own business.
Are you “minding your own business”? Are you really…?
Oof sorry.
I realise now that how high I wear my trousers was actually everyone’s business and wearing it high enough that it didn’t hinder movement was actually humiliating you and is morally wrong.
And indeed, the pen in my school bag was your business, so was me trying to go out to study when you didn’t let me sleep and it was my bad to have respected the teachers instead of calling them names.
And of course, burning a smoky firecracker through the door of my 3x4 room was definitely not harassment, neither was banging my door and running away at random times, for a whole year and I was overreacting.Thanks for educating me.
Idk, I’m just not interested in policing other people’s genders.
I want to make sure I got the question right, because I’m not exactly sure what you’re asking.
Are you saying that you should be able to disagree about the science behind gender identity because you feel that the current definitions and standards were created by politics and not science and research?
Now I have a headache.
No. I think transgender people get more than their fair share of a shit show and deserve safe spaces free from any lines in the sand of others. Ultimately no one has a right to project their beliefs onto others.
You have a right to all information sources, a right to skepticism, a right to error, and the right to protest in all nonviolent forms aka the right to offend others. Your rights never include infringing upon the rights of any other.
The idea that others are subject to collective critique is nonsense conjured by religious backwardness. I came from such an upbringing too. That is the toxic nonsense you need to try to purge. The peer pressure, negative feedback loop, and shaming only leads to problems. It is not real ethics or morality. It is a tool to get you to outsource your morality and ethics to a dubious source, and ultimately to have nothing more than a fear of getting caught. It is a system that fails at basic game theory; a negative feedback loop is incapable of producing positive outcomes. You cannot amplify from unity gain or attenuation. So ask yourself, is this a negative feedback loop. If the answer is yes, and you have nothing positive to amplify, then all you are doing is death by a thousand cuts and bleeding someone further. Be a positive force in the world and maybe just maybe you will have positive outcomes too.
Trans people’s existence isn’t a political position or a logical puzzle.
All you have know is:
people who deserve respect = people who deserve respect.
The project of inventing your own gender theory based on Bio 101 is pretty myopic. As though people don’t count as people until you’ve fixed the taxonomy in your mind. You don’t have to read Judith Butler, but have the self awareness that dismissing the literature before engaging with it is not the product of critical thought.
“Transgender ideology” = trans people have the right to exist as they are.
So no.
I don’t see a question here. There might have been one but some words got chopped out.
The complete title is available on PieFed, which is where the user is from and has a higher character limit:
I’m not saying that I agree with right- or center-wing views, and I do condemn transphobia. However, do you think there should be a distinction between critiquing beliefs of transgender people and their identity, and engaging in transphobia?
I have tried to get my point across before, but was labeled a transphobe. I have no issue with trans people and wish them all the best in their pursuit of happiness. I understand the issue they face: Society put them in one of two gender categories, and they don’t feel that’s where they belong. That’s a valid issue in my eyes.
I just don’t really see the current approach fixing this. Its like we saw that there was an issue with racism, but instead of abolishing it, we added more categories like “race-fluid”.
In my eyes, the root issue is the concept of gender identities, and how big a role they play in our day to day lifes. Why does the way people address me (sir/madam, he/she) depend on my gender identity? Why does every form I fill out ask for my gender identity? Why are so many things separated by gender?
I’d like to see a post-gender society, where we don’t need pronouns. Where there is no concept of gender identity, because everyone is just themselves.
Instead of staying inside the box, adding classification after classification, I think we should leave the box and stop assigning a gender identity to every one of us.
While I agree that the enforcement of social norms that leads to being transgender is the ultimate root cause, the current approach of self identification has the exact same positive outcome as getting rid of gender norms without needing to undo all of human history.
That would be great, but it still doesn’t address dysphoria, which is actually about sex, not gender, despite the name. We use “gender” to refer both to the societal roles that you (and I) want to abolish and to the sex characteristics that a person wants their body to have.
No more identity politics
“and the”
And the what???
Also center is not a “wing”.
You don’t seem to have any kind of coherent thought with your question.Basically your question is “I don’t say I agree with right wing views, but…” You just use however instead. But it’s the same thing.
Also transgender is neither an ideology philosophy or religion. So your comparison to Theism is way off.
There’s a huge difference in believing to have a personal experience with the supernatural, and to have a personal experience about yourself.scientifically under-defined
You can make that claim about a lot of things, even gravity and especially time, nobody understands time, would you deny time exist?
And the what???
The complete title is available on PieFed, which is where the user is from and has a higher character limit:
I’m not saying that I agree with right- or center-wing views, and I do condemn transphobia. However, do you think there should be a distinction between critiquing beliefs of transgender people and their identity, and engaging in transphobia?
I wouldn’t be too harsh on OP, I (shamefully) used to have similar views before growing up and becoming an ally. This is a trans-friendly echo chamber but to add people to our side, we need to engage in empathetic discussion with those who have only known outdated perspectives on gender, like my Catholic parents’. See my other comment.
On a lighter note: there are people who understand time pretty well but magnets? How do they work??? (Yes, a real gap in physics)
PLEASE don’t criticize OP for asking what you might see as an insensitive question. I don’t think they have bad intentions and they should be commended for seeking explanations.
I also used to be ignorant or skeptical about gender, back when I was a Christian. But I think you can figure it out like I did.
Basically, trans rights mean that gender is no longer purely about biological sex (and now we know even biological sex isn’t binary, look up intersex people). And gender isn’t really scientific, it’s how a person feels and presents.
If you spend time around queer people (online can be enough) and listen, you’ll develop an understanding of different perspectives on gender. These spaces are meant to be safe (that kind of warmth dragged me in) but therefore please refrain from confronting people there. You might have uncomfortable questions but that’s what !nostupidquestions@lemmy.world is for, as opposed to, say, !trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone.
But yeah, to this day I find some queers’ attempts to make the world more inclusive rather unreasonable, like most neopronouns that have been attempted in the heavily-gendered Czech language.
And there are people whose gender identity is so out of the ordinary you might never understand. It’s great that you ask questions, even though some people can’t answer as clearly as you’d have hoped. But you still should respect them.
Feel free to ask more questions in this thread or privately, I’m sorry that my peers are so unwelcoming.
Also, you’ve exceeded the character limit so “ir identity, and engaging in transphobia?” got cut off from your title. Unlike on Reddit, you can still edit it on Lemmy.
