I’m both amused and worried about the idea, as there are certainly people I don’t want seeing me naked, but also, if I found out certain people got off on me, I would be very amused.
I’ve made a LOT of homemade porn over the years. Lots of videos and lots and lots of pictures. I’m a man in my late 50s and have been making homemade porn alone and with partners since digital cameras first became a thing. In fact, I have homemade port on Polaroids and 35mm. A fair number of my friends have seen my pictures and some have seen my videos. I’m overweight but I have a nice penis so I’ve never really worried about it. If it were small or crooked or otherwise ugly I would be more concerned but when I get one of those emails threatening to send me private pictures to everyone I know if I don’t pay up in bitcoin I anways want to respond, “Can I give you a list of the people I would really like to see my cock?” It would be a real conversation starter with some people.
Should have offered to pay them Bitcoin if they do 🥹
You sending friends porn, does not count also lol.
Accidents do.
I know, but the point was that I’ve sent my pictures and some of my videos to anyone who has asked. Someone I had only met a couple of times and who I didn’t know very well sent me a note and said, “[Someone that I know very well] said that if I asked you would show me your dick. Is that true?” I said, “Yes.” She said, “Can I see your dick?” so I showed her and she liked what she saw. Now she’s a good friend that I’ve fucked.
Ooh that is interesting. I don’t gatekeep much either, it’s just that I’m wirred straight, everyone else I’d send naked pics, and other posses to.
But with a preference for it to be something interesting, a generic picture of someone’s meat stick seems kind of lame, to be honest.
Otherwise, I like requests, especially unusual ones.
I respond in kind. I will send a dick pic for the asking. If you want more, a video, a picture of all of me, etc. you need to send me the same.
Sounds like a fair deal…
Yeah I always laugh at those extortion attempts. Like anyone who wants to can already see me naked. Why would I care if you send out more of my nudes.
That’s why I would like to give them a list. There is a small group of people that I would very much like to see my cock but that haven’t asked. If some scammer wants to help me out that would be awesome.
with the advent of snapchat, it’s never been easier to send the wrong person lewds!
the one notable time it happened to me ended up opening a dialogue that would NOT have been there otherwise. 5+ years later and we’re gonna start dating soon!
so hey, who knows, could be all upsides ^^
How did sending accidental nudes get you a date, lmao! I hope they are not after just your body. Yeah, I think those are almost completely sepperate things, that can coexist, but it’s bad mojo.
Oh awesome! Fellow ADHD lurker…
we were already really close, both really sex positive, and both in committed relationships. we both told our partners, and THEY both thought the situation was hilarious.
anyway yeah, years on now and we’re both single after a 5 and 11 year relationship respectively. i’m excited ^^
Oh awesome! Good luck! Hope it works out for you!
I fucking hope not
Lmao
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Wooh…I can feel the heat from here. Did you feel a bit uncomfortable, want tobyou know, keep out of touch distance?
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Oh, oh my. As in you know she had seen you? I wonder how she does not connect the dots. Any sign she might have liked what she had seen?
I found a friend naked online and I didn’t bring it up. Later he told me and I shares that I may have found it. We laughed about it and talked more openly about the sex industry in general as a whole.
There’s no attraction. But there was potential mingling, like when a friend was curious and I said, “Oh I know a guy you can chat with!”
Honestly, that is more interesting than “and then they fucked!”.
Thank you for this story!
Not sure I’d want them to tell me. The idea of it is fun, but also gives me anxiety.
Eh, there’s always a risk, especially if you know any of them are Lemmy users.
But it is quite small.
I don’t think I have a single friend I would hookup with, so, amusing at best, horrifying at worst.

