So I’ve basically been kinky my whole sexual life (from pre-pubescent), but have recently appreciated some almost vanilla sex with a partner.
This raised quite a few questions about how and why I appreciate things, and I’m thinking maybe I should lean into having a sexual mid-life crisis and rejigger and widen where and how I take pleasure. Can’t ever enjoy pleasure too much, right?
How did you go about discovering what you enjoy?
For anyone having put conscious effort into it, what did you do? What are some helpful resources you’d recommend?
I got regenerated doing foursome swaps with my GF. If you can separate the act of physical sex from emotion it’s lots of fun. You get to fuck other people with no guilt and you will get hot watching your partner being fucked by someone else. Fucking is just a fun activity like playing tennis. Loving and caring for your partner is on a different level