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minus-squareCaptainEffort@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up8·7 months agoThey missed this, but she’s upset because he’s imagining her as a man
minus-squareMystikIncarnate@lemmy.calinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·7 months agoUnless that’s a surprise (that he likes men), I’m not sure how much of a problem that would really be. But far be it for me to tell anyone what should and shouldn’t upset them.
minus-squareCaptainEffort@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up4·7 months agoEven if he likes men, and she knew, being told that you’re thought of as the gender you’re not isn’t something most people want. Calling a girl a dude when they identify as a girl isn’t exactly flattering.
minus-squareMystikIncarnate@lemmy.calinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·7 months agoThat’s fair enough. I don’t personally let such things bother me, but I’m strange.
They missed this, but she’s upset because he’s imagining her as a man
Unless that’s a surprise (that he likes men), I’m not sure how much of a problem that would really be.
But far be it for me to tell anyone what should and shouldn’t upset them.
Even if he likes men, and she knew, being told that you’re thought of as the gender you’re not isn’t something most people want. Calling a girl a dude when they identify as a girl isn’t exactly flattering.
That’s fair enough. I don’t personally let such things bother me, but I’m strange.